It’s not about drawing the perfect elephant

I spent the morning drawing animals from every letter of the alphabet, in every color of the crayon box at my 3 year old’s request. At first, I attempted to escape the task by sitting on the couch sipping coffee and waiting for soccer to come on. I also tried to do things for the other kids like make breakfast and feed them. Anything to get out of coloring for the next half a day. As he persisted, the more I realized this was an opportunity to lean in.   

Who knew "ghosting" at work was a thing?

We were recently hiring for an open position in our office. We had a number of great applications and we picked our top candidates to bring in for an interview. We had a number of great interviews over the course of a few days and we were waiting for the final person to arrive. We kept working and waiting, and looking out the door. Five minutes went by, then ten minutes, and by twenty minutes our office convened to answer the question, "What will we do if this person shows up now? Will we interview them or turn them away?" We never had to actually act on the answer to that question. We were ghosted.

What do you do with all your kids' artwork? There's an app for that!

So I don't know about you, but I get weekly, if not daily drawings from my kids' daycare. I'm thrilled every time I get something because I know they're working on drawing, coloring, learning numbers, printing their letters, cutting, gluing, and painting. Very important development skills for sure! The thing is I'm overwhelmed with the amount of stuff I get, because let's face it, most of it is... let me just call it like it is... it's crap.

Planning group outings is like herding cats

My husband's best friend is getting married in September and my husband is the best man. This means he gets to plan a bachelor party on his behalf. Bachelor parties are no longer single night events to celebrate the groom before he gets hitched, but entire weekends packed full of tours, shows, entertainment, and good old fashioned guy bonding time.

Are you “mom enough?”

There’s an unspoken pressure that comes with being a working mom. I mostly know how to deal with that at this point (ignore the naysayers, build my own self-confidence that I’m doing the right thing, and sometimes even try and trick myself into believing that I am “mom enough” for my kids). Basically whatever it takes. But sometimes it feels like there’s not enough.