Parenting

How Kids Learn to Believe in Themselves (Because of You)

Self-confidence doesn’t arrive on command—it’s cultivated. It takes root in the rhythms of everyday life, shaped by how children are seen, spoken to, challenged, and supported. As a parent, you don’t have to engineer perfection. You do have to notice. Confidence doesn’t bloom from praise alone, but from witnessing their own ability to recover, solve, and contribute. Every moment of friction holds a seed of growth. So how do you give your child that deep, internal sense that they can do hard things—and be okay on the other side?